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Post by slh1234 on Oct 6, 2010 18:33:01 GMT
So you think that one may not be gender related.
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Post by scpg02 on Oct 7, 2010 2:27:13 GMT
So you think that one may not be gender related. Not unless you are talking about brain structure and synapse speed.
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Post by slh1234 on Oct 7, 2010 23:02:39 GMT
I don't know whether it would be related to brain structure or not. It seems to be a common complaint women have about men, and I recognized that I do it, too. My wife doesn't - when she's preoccupied she just tells me, "I can't think about that right now." Since it seemed to apply to me, but not her or our daughters, I had to wonder if it was related.
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Post by scpg02 on Oct 7, 2010 23:15:03 GMT
I don't know whether it would be related to brain structure or not. It seems to be a common complaint women have about men, and I recognized that I do it, too. My wife doesn't - when she's preoccupied she just tells me, "I can't think about that right now." Since it seemed to apply to me, but not her or our daughters, I had to wonder if it was related. Well I've been told by several men that I think like a man. Whatever that means. ;D
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Post by csspider57 on Oct 25, 2010 0:57:04 GMT
I don't know whether it would be related to brain structure or not. It seems to be a common complaint women have about men, and I recognized that I do it, too. My wife doesn't - when she's preoccupied she just tells me, "I can't think about that right now." Since it seemed to apply to me, but not her or our daughters, I had to wonder if it was related. Well I've been told by several men that I think like a man. Whatever that means. ;D Maggie, did you grow up in a male dominated household? Myself 3 older bros, 1 younger bro, and 2 younger sisters. I think that made the difference for me. Seems I have been in that old situation of "whose side are you on," far too often in my time. Middle children need to know how to ride the fence, alot. One of our local radio stations recently reported a startling statistic. 80% of the women surveyed admitted they were faking. Something wrong with that picture. Maybe men just need to get over themselves and figure out that we women really aren't that much physically different than they are, just a wee bit smaller. lol So.. letting men be men, is not a good thing to do. Well in some instances anyway.
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Post by scpg02 on Oct 25, 2010 7:28:09 GMT
Maggie, did you grow up in a male dominated household? Only child.
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Post by slh1234 on Oct 25, 2010 22:25:12 GMT
Well I've been told by several men that I think like a man. Whatever that means. ;D Maggie, did you grow up in a male dominated household? Myself 3 older bros, 1 younger bro, and 2 younger sisters. I think that made the difference for me. Seems I have been in that old situation of "whose side are you on," far too often in my time. Middle children need to know how to ride the fence, alot. One of our local radio stations recently reported a startling statistic. 80% of the women surveyed admitted they were faking. Something wrong with that picture. Maybe men just need to get over themselves and figure out that we women really aren't that much physically different than they are, just a wee bit smaller. lol So.. letting men be men, is not a good thing to do. Well in some instances anyway. Can you clarify a bit for me? I really want to be sure I know what is being said. Faking what? How is not letting men be men a good thing?
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Post by csspider57 on Oct 26, 2010 14:05:35 GMT
Hey hey this is a family show.
Send a PM to another viewer and ask them.
Dion and the Belmonts, The Wanderer
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Post by slh1234 on Oct 26, 2010 14:18:12 GMT
Hey hey this is a family show. Send a PM to another viewer and ask them. So this seems to be turning into one of those other areas where men and women complain about each other ... I'm not sure I'm catching your hint. The way you seem to be trying to avoid actually saying it, I'm guessing now that you are saying that the women say they fake orgasms. Is that what you are saying? There are a number of follow up questions depending on the answer to that question.
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Post by scpg02 on Oct 27, 2010 0:30:11 GMT
Hey hey this is a family show. Send a PM to another viewer and ask them. So this seems to be turning into one of those other areas where men and women complain about each other ... I'm not sure I'm catching your hint. The way you seem to be trying to avoid actually saying it, I'm guessing now that you are saying that the women say they fake orgasms. Is that what you are saying? There are a number of follow up questions depending on the answer to that question. Yes she was saying that women fake orgasms. I don't. What's the point in that?
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Post by slh1234 on Oct 27, 2010 2:37:59 GMT
Okay. I got it then. You're right, that doesn't sound like fun. so I would have to wonder why anyone would. I can come up with a few reasons I would guess why and they would range from feeling time pressure to embarassment, and most of the reasons I would guess would also make me wonder if that personality would also feel pressured to give a certain answer in a survey. Probably any guess I make is going to be pretty entertaining to the women, though . So I'll just wonder out loud: "Why?" Edit: I fully expect there to be multiple reasons, and a statistical distribution among those reasons ... I just don't know all the reasons, and have no idea about the statistical distribution.
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Post by farkstick on Oct 27, 2010 20:36:15 GMT
You're not a real man until you've faked NOT having an orgasm!
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Post by csspider57 on Oct 28, 2010 12:01:50 GMT
So this seems to be turning into one of those other areas where men and women complain about each other ... I'm not sure I'm catching your hint. The way you seem to be trying to avoid actually saying it, I'm guessing now that you are saying that the women say they fake orgasms. Is that what you are saying? There are a number of follow up questions depending on the answer to that question. Yes she was saying that women fake orgasms. I don't. What's the point in that? Exactly Maggie, what's the point. I was startled at the high percentage though. Lack of communication between men and women? What if the most men today are getting there info from watching porn videos? Then they are lead to believe what they are seeing is the real? When really it is entertainment. This has a way of setting up some competetiveness between men themselves in what they can brag about between themselves. With that would also come the big/small complex. How many porn movies are using the avg/sm dude? Now some are lead to believe size is the most important, which it is not. Now it spills over into the woman or women they are with. Some sort of domino effect. How do we get that 80%? Farkstick, still sounds like a backache. lol
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Post by slh1234 on Oct 30, 2010 4:23:26 GMT
Yes she was saying that women fake orgasms. I don't. What's the point in that? Exactly Maggie, what's the point. I was startled at the high percentage though. Lack of communication between men and women? What if the most men today are getting there info from watching porn videos? Then they are lead to believe what they are seeing is the real? When really it is entertainment. This has a way of setting up some competetiveness between men themselves in what they can brag about between themselves. With that would also come the big/small complex. How many porn movies are using the avg/sm dude? Now some are lead to believe size is the most important, which it is not. Now it spills over into the woman or women they are with. Some sort of domino effect. How do we get that 80%? I think we do have some communication problems. So let me ask you, do you think most men are getting their info from watching porn videos? If they are, then there is some validity in what follows in your discussion, but do you really think they are? What do you think of women who get information from the checkout tabloids which tell them how to turn their man on? or what he really wants? But again, what percentage really read it thinking they are getting valid information? And how many recognize that those articles are written by women telling other women about men, rather than being written by men telling about men? I really don't know the answers to any of those questions either. But regarding statistics, I wonder if that percentage fits one of my two favorite quotes which are: 1. 87.6% of all statistics are made up. 2. There are lies, damn lies, and statistics. I'm still unsure of the question enough that I'm not sure of how to analyze it even, but it has my interest. And if it means what my initial thoughts were, I want to know more about it. I don't know yet how we get to 80%, but I'd like to look at it a little more - starting with whether or not the statistic even means what we think it does. Stay engaged with me on this because I'd like to talk it through.
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Post by csspider57 on Oct 30, 2010 14:14:39 GMT
Exactly Maggie, what's the point. I was startled at the high percentage though. Lack of communication between men and women? What if the most men today are getting there info from watching porn videos? Then they are lead to believe what they are seeing is the real? When really it is entertainment. This has a way of setting up some competetiveness between men themselves in what they can brag about between themselves. With that would also come the big/small complex. How many porn movies are using the avg/sm dude? Now some are lead to believe size is the most important, which it is not. Now it spills over into the woman or women they are with. Some sort of domino effect. How do we get that 80%? I think we do have some communication problems. So let me ask you, do you think most men are getting their info from watching porn videos? If they are, then there is some validity in what follows in your discussion, but do you really think they are? What do you think of women who get information from the checkout tabloids which tell them how to turn their man on? or what he really wants? But again, what percentage really read it thinking they are getting valid information? And how many recognize that those articles are written by women telling other women about men, rather than being written by men telling about men? I really don't know the answers to any of those questions either. But regarding statistics, I wonder if that percentage fits one of my two favorite quotes which are: 1. 87.6% of all statistics are made up. 2. There are lies, damn lies, and statistics. I'm still unsure of the question enough that I'm not sure of how to analyze it even, but it has my interest. And if it means what my initial thoughts were, I want to know more about it. I don't know yet how we get to 80%, but I'd like to look at it a little more - starting with whether or not the statistic even means what we think it does. Stay engaged with me on this because I'd like to talk it through. Lack of communication between both parties, sure. Where do men get info from, wherever it is available to them. Some sources would be other mens experiences, porn varieties and other women. Probably not your grandmother, though. lol Here's one for you.. DO NOT take it personally.. though. All fishermen are liars, just between me and you, I not so sure about you. Hey Joe, everytime you tell that fish story that fish just keeps getting bigger. Truthfully 80% was disheartening.
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